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Do you want to be in love forever? And these long term relationship secrets can help you make it happen.

How to learn to recognize real love

Before we explore the essential long term relationship secrets, you must first learn how to recognize love when it appears. Relationships are the most intense personal growth workshops that exist. You need a relentless, unshakable force strong enough to keep you doing the intense self-inquiry required to make a partnership effective, long term. Your partner, if right, becomes a mirror for your magnificence and your myopias.

A long-term relationship demands that you dive-into a more expansive version of you, and it can be terrifying to your status-quo self. Only True Love is strong enough to withstand the uncontrollable urge to run, to leave when it gets too hard. And that is the point. Love is a sacred crucible for self-actualization.

These are the unproductive beliefs I had once, and often find in my female clients. If any of these statements resonated for you, pay close attention to the rest of this article.

15 s he wants a serious long-term relationship

If you want to have your dream guy fall in love and stay with you forever, here are the 5 long term relationship secrets you need to know. Your arms, your eyes, your lap, those have to be a refuge for him. This requires you to surrender to his strengths, wherever they are.

This means you must learn to lean into his unique wisdom, his power and his support. Trust is not earned, it can only be granted. Believe in his desire to serve you, nourish you and push you toward your wants. Look for the hero in your partner, acknowledge, revere and appreciate that aspect.

Never stop pursuing your partner

Men fall in love with the woman who lets him be her hero. With your partner, reward good behavior and ignore bad behavior. Do not use leverage, criticism or manipulation to get what you want, rather invite a new behavior by making requests laced with trust and desire.

This is the feminine way to influence, seduce rather than coerce. Men hunger to be acknowledged for specific things and in public if possible.

How to maintain a long term relationship… for men and women.

Also notice how your ego may hold you back from sharing empowering, affirming feedback with your man, as an attempt to maintain leverage and power. Keep developing yourself and your sexuality so that you and him can have a non-shameful, exciting sex life.

The litmus test of a relationship working long-term is their sex life. Sex makes or breaks relationships. If you want a guy to choose you to sleep with for the rest of his life, you have to learn to enjoy sex, share your needs, wants and fantasies, and be open to hearing his. Constantly re-invent your sexuality together.

Reasons you haven’t found lasting love

Until these primal issues around sex and shame are explored openly with surgical sensitivity, they will haunt and undermine your relationship. A man falls in love with the woman he feels most alive around.

Learn to identify, map and name your emotional states, then practice sharing them. Faith is the umbilical cord that connects you and your lover to each other and romantic success. Faith requires an unreasonable audacity.

You don’t have to do any chasing

It is something you create in yourself, by yourself. Cultivating faith is a muscle. It must be practiced and strengthened when doubt tries to creep in.

As a woman, you are the emotional leader in your relationship. Some things cannot be learned, except through creation. I invite you to take on becoming a creator of love, even in the face of fear. True Love requires only one thing: that you believe in it.

So, which of these long term relationship secrets resonated with you? Share your love story with us in the comments below!